I listened to a really good and challenging message from Darrin Patrick this week. He was preaching out of Prov. 3:5-6 and answering the question “What is God's Will for My Life?” As someone who hit 30 years old this year and has looked back on the last 30 years with some since of sadness at what has been accomplished and a longing to change that for the future. I have been asking this question. You can download the message on iTunes here or the direct .mp3 here.
R.C. Sproul wrote a great little book called "Can I Know God's Will? (Crucial Questions Series)" In it he goes through and explains all the different will’s of God. I would recommend it as a good resource for further study.
Here are the notes I took as I listened to his message:
Scripture was written in genres of literature.
- Law (A command from God that I must always obey.)
- Promise (A guarantee from God that will always be true.)
- Proverbs (Short descriptions about the way things generally go in this world.)
Love the LORD your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength. Deut. 6:5 Matt 22:37 – LAW
Love your neighbor as yourself Lev.19:18 Mark 13:30 – LAW
Nothing will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus Rom. 8:38-39 – PROMISE
Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you Heb. 13:5 Deut. 31:6 – PROMISE
A generous man will prosper Prov. 11:25 – PROVERB
Whoever oppresses the poor will come to poverty Prov. 22:16 – PROVERB
Proverbs are situational. Laws and promises are not. If you try to apply these proverbs or some narrative of the Old Testament and make it binding on your life when it was never intended to do that you will be disappointed and you will doubt that God really wants to lead and guide you.
Gods Will
Sovereign Will (Events that God has ordained or decreed that will happen.)
- Jesus will return.
- The gates of hell will note prevail against the Church.
Moral Will (Laws that God commands us to keep.)
- Sexual purity.
- Lying.
- Cheating.
Personal Will (Promptings that God invites us to and to follow.)
- Do I move?
- How many kids do I have?
- Should I marry this person or not?
- Should I take this job?
- What treatment option should I choose for my illness?
- When should I retire?
As you understand God and how he works sovereignty, that he really is in control of everything (A) and you are obedient to what God requires of you morally (B) you will have more clarity on what God wants for you. More clarity, not perfect clarity. This side of Heaven we just wont have 100% clarity (1 Cor. 13:12 For now we see in a mirror dimly, but then face to face.) Our biggest problem though for the most part is not clarity, its rebellion and fear.
Our problem with Gods personal will is not that He has not reveled it to us; it’s that we don’t want to do it or we are too afraid to trust Him. The scriptures have to do a work in us with regard to this. Every time God shows us what He wants us to do personally it will expose our rebellion & it will expose our fear.
How can I know God's will for my life?
God reveals his will to those who are surrendered to Him.
- Trust in the lord with all your heart.
- Our surrender brings God’s clarity. Prov 3:6.
God reveals his will to those whose minds are being transformed by scripture.
- Do not learn on your own understanding. Lean on God’s. Transform your understanding.
- Transformation involves information. Transformation involves discernment. Read your Bible. Psalms 119:105
- Wisdom comes from studying the Bible.
- Read it! Study it! Do it! Teach it! (Ezra’s example)
God reveals his will through the wise counsel of others.
- You have a team of counselors around your life (friends). The question is not are they counseling you, the question is, is it wise counsel?
- Most people surround themselves with collective ignorance. We surround ourselves with friends that have the same idolatry as we have, the same sins we do. They won’t challenge us on our sins because in doing so it will challenge their sin. They won’t rebuke you for how you handled a certain situation because they don’t want to be rebuked for their sin. This is why very few people grow in relationships.
- Surround yourself with WISE counsel! This can’t be fulfilled by one person, so have a team of wise people around you.
Here’s our biggest problem with God’s will. We want Gods will more than God. We seek His hand and not His heart. When we seek God for God, (not looking to get something) He is delighted to reveal his will to us.